and then I danced some more
Published on March 28, 2004 By Urban Faery In Blogging
Friday night Phantom came up to visit for my hall's formal. It wasn't a huge deal formal, but we all dressed up fancy, had a couple drinks, took a couple pictures and headed over. About 125 people from all of the LLCs showed up, which isn't too bad. The food that they promised consisted of two trays of fruit, two trays of vegetables and one tray of cookies for the entire night. Not too impressive. And the music was all right. They had they're highlight moments when they played Zepplin, and TIme Warp, and I enjoyed Diamonds on the Souls of Her Shoes but I was the only one who knew the song. But I had so much fun dancing with Phantom!

Since I'm not nineteen yet and I don't have a fake id I haven't been able to go out dancing at the bar with everyone else so it's been about a year since I've been dancing in that kind of setting. And I love it! First of all Phantom is an amazing dancer and second, because the two of us kept coming up with ridiculous moves as we went and then laughing. it was the first time I've ever had that magic dancing with someone feeling where it was like we were the only two on the dance floor. It was incredible. We got some really great pictures too, so I'm very happy.

We left the formal at around 12:40am and headed back to Watson. Phantom and I went back to my room and ended up ordering a pizza. So we ate and watched Dogma and then went to bed. This was the first time that Phantom was ever able to sleep in my bed with me because my crazy roommates don't allow boys in the room. It's all very bizarre and annoying. But they were both in Toronto on Friday night and not scheduled to come home until 2 o'clock on Saturday.

Too bad they came home early. Here's what I don't understand. As a roommate, and as a woman, I would be inclined to take hints. Especially if I were to arrive back at my room and find my roommate still in bed with her boyfriend. AC walks in at ten to one. We were just about to get out of bed and get dressed, but they came back early. So I hear the key in the door and panic, seeing as how we're both naked under a sheet. I yell out "Guys could you just come back in like five minutes?" but the door opens anyway. Ashley flips on the light and again I ask "Could you just go back out and come in in five minutes?" She ignores me and says "Oh sorry did I wake you? " and proceeds to turn the light back off but then walk into the room anyway. Then a minute later AT comes in. So Phantom and I are giggling because this is ridiculous. And luckily I have some clothes in the basket beside my bed so I try to discreetly wriggle them on and then pass Phantom some undies. they finally both left to go to the bathroom or something and we were able to get dressed. But I just don't get how they didn't get the message. I mean, I'm holding a bloody sheet up to my neck, I'm in bed with my boyfriend, and I'm asking them to leave. How much clearer can I possibly be? I am so glad I won't have to live with these girls next year. The obliviousness is truly incomprehensible.

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on Mar 28, 2004
You're not even 19 yet????!!!! Oh my gosh, I thought I had you pegged as mid-twenties.

You and Phantom seem like a sweet couple, though sex should be saved for marriage, but still----sweet all the same.

Trinitie
on Mar 28, 2004
Sounds like fun. I can just see you dancing with the little stars in your eyes and spotlight on you just like in the movies - lol! You definately should work out some kind of system with your roomates but it doesn't sound like they want to cooperate with you too much. Do they have boyfriends? I wish I had gotten to go to college. I missed that whole experience.
on Mar 28, 2004
I had the reverse problem in residence; my roommate and her boyfriend were always in our room together. It got to the point where I was hanging out more in his room with his roommate than in my own. I understood that they wanted to spend time together, but fuck, was it ever annoying not being able to go into my own room whenever I wanted to. All it took was a little bit of talk to clear it up, though. Sure, they spent as much time as possible in our room, but it got to the point where I would knock, wait for a few minutes and then stroll in quickly, eyes averted. His roommate and I became good friends because of their relationship. In the end, it was hard to say who was my roommate, him, or my starry-eyed roommate and her partner. What was a pain in the ass in the beginning turned out to be pretty good in the end.
on Mar 28, 2004
Everyone doesn't have to follow the sex after marraige plan.

It's not pre-marital sex, if you're not planning on getting married.

on Mar 28, 2004
I don't know how to react to that....
on Mar 29, 2004
*giggling* That was just silly Phantom. Let's see...if you're not yet married, it's not pre-marital? Hmmm....

So, ya'll are planning on getting married? What a wonderful way to say it to your love.

Trinitie
on Mar 29, 2004
I try to discreetly wriggle them on and then pass Phantom some undies.


i couldn't help but laugh at that... did you pass his to him? or some of yours? hahahhahahahahahahaha
on Mar 29, 2004
"You and Phantom seem like a sweet couple, though sex should be saved for marriage, but still----sweet all the same".

Great comeback:

"It's not pre-marital sex, if you're not planning on getting married"

That is the ideal way to deal with religious types who attempt to take the moral high ground and spoil your fun, jolly good show old chap!
on Mar 29, 2004
Lol go again Sir Peter! And Phantom.

I guess I don't totally agree with that statement, but I also don't believe in the "no sex before marriage" crap. Just never thought that way. I feel like it's a waste of time. Anyway it's your blog so you can write what you want!!!

~Anne!
on Mar 29, 2004
As long as you find someone you love, I don't see why it's such a bad thing. Maybe your ready for sex, but it's not the time to get married, financially.

You don't want to die a virgin do you? When you go to heaven you'll only be able to hang out with Mary and nerds. Where's the fun in that?
on Mar 29, 2004
I think it's funny that everyone's talking about premarital sex considering in my article I never said anything about sex, I just said that we were in bed naked. And we were just waking up, not having sex.

Not to say that we don't, I just think it's funny that everyone jumped to conclusions.
on Mar 29, 2004
haha, good point, very good point.

Trinitie
on Mar 29, 2004
Considering some of your other posts, I think it was a reasonable assumption. One thing leads to another, as is evident by the current state of this thread.
on Mar 30, 2004
I love my Phantom and we waited until we were ready and safe and neither of us have any regrets.
on Mar 30, 2004
my Phantom


I love that you included the word "my"....how wonderful.

Trinitie:)
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